That's Life

Hey girls here's some advice from this relationship bugger who wrote a book. Here are some excerpts which I find particularly interesting or amusing.

'To establish dominance, you have to learn to hold eye contact for longer
than her. If you see a woman that you find attractive, and she looks back at
you, DON'T LOOK AWAY. Most guys become self-conscious and look away as
soon as a woman notices them looking. This is a HUGE mistake. If you want to communicate all the right things, you need to show IMMEDIATELY that you're not afraid and that you're not at all self-conscious about the fact that you are checking her out.'

If you try this in Singapore, you'll get a slap. Unless the girl's a whore. Which means fun. But well danger too. But fun.

'Along with the eager-to-please attitude, wusses expose themselves by
being easily impressed by the other person and making nervous, uncomfortable, insecure comments of their own. One of the worst is asking “Do you like me?” If she did before you asked, she certainly doesn’t now! Asked sincerely, this question reveals the deadly combination that you both care whether or not she likes you and that you’re not certain she likes you because you’re unsure about being good enough for her.'

Now this at least makes some sense. Damn it the girl should bloody admit it. I mean as if it's not enough that we have to ask for your number and make the first damn move and now you want us to be at the mercy of your reply?

'NOT TALKING ABOUT SEX BECAUSE YOU DON’T WANT HER TO KNOW YOU’RE THINKING ABOUT IT IS EXACTLY WHAT TELLS HER YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT IT AND THAT YOU’RE NOT WORTHY OF IT!'

This line takes the cake. So we're supposed to go tell the girls we want to bang that we've got the hots for them otherwise they will know it anyway? This is utter nonsense. If that were the case, I'd have a whole long list of girls to talk to sex about.

Anyway was watching 'Everytime' by Britney Spears on Youtube. Decent song. One of the better videos.